Tuesday, April 28, 2009

I'm tired

SO tired. I hate this feeling. Sheer exhaustion. Put on a smile. Hope no one sees you breaking inside. Hide your fear. The not knowing. It has been years now...
When will it be over?

There is still no news. We were told this morning that we won't have ANY information about DIA's decision in our case until these other two adoptions are complete. There is no time frame for the completion of these adoptions. No Invitations to travel. Nothing. Our fingerprints will expire again this fall and the extension is no longer free. Dillen lies in a crib, waiting while we are desperate to bring her home. No answers. DIA has not helped her, our agency has not helped her, and the province leaders have not helped her. Who looks after the orphans but our God?

Friday, April 17, 2009

News is better than none...

We received an email this morning that our paperwork is still at DIA. That is all we know. The good news? Someone took time to find out for us. The bad news? How long does it have to sit on a desk collecting dust while Dillen lays in an orphanage and waits for her family to bring her home?

Thursday, April 16, 2009

60 Days!

It has been 61 days now that our paperwork has been at DIA. We have no new information about what is taking so long, or what DIA has decided about our paperwork. Our facilitator in Vietnam will not answer any questions about case, nor will our agency. We assume this is because they don't have any information, but we can't even get an answer to the question "Have you called DIA and asked about our case?" This is so frustrating.

The province officials have decided that they will not even look at our case, or the other two that went to DIA until two more families complete their adoption, the Henson and Lopez family. However, the officials have not given either family an Invitation to travel.

Yesterday Dillen was 16 months old. We hold on to the hope that she will be coming home, we just can't even imagine when.

Thursday, April 9, 2009

What Matters Most

What Matters Most About the Crucifixion—Matthew 27:42-43
by Jack Klumpenhower4/9/2009

When I think of Jesus’ experience on the cross I tend to focus on the pain, which must have been severe. Or I think of the terror of impending death. Or the loneliness of bearing God’s curse. But although each of these surely matters, the Bible’s crucifixion accounts give the most attention to something else entirely. They focus on how Jesus was mocked.As I said, my own instinct would be to treat the mocking that Jesus endured as secondary, given the circumstances. But Matthew in particular gives few details about pain and death but long descriptions of Jesus being mocked. He tells how the soldiers teased Jesus over his claim to be king; how they made a crown of thorns, gave him a stick for a scepter and hit him with it, and knelt before him taunting, “Hail, King of the Jews!” (27:29). Matthew also notes the sign on Jesus’ cross, which likewise ridiculed him as “King of the Jews” (27:37). He mentions how passersby teased Jesus over his claim to rebuild the Temple in three days. He says that even the guys crucified next to Jesus mocked him.So what am I missing here? Why is the mocking so important to the crucifixion? And why should it matter to me?
Words that Sting
The mocking reached a peak when the leading priests and other religious bigwigs got into the act. Matthew writes: “ ‘He saved others,’ they scoffed, ‘but he can’t save himself! So he is the King of Israel, is he? Let him come down from the cross right now, and we will believe in him! He trusted God, so let God rescue him now if he wants him! For he said, “I am the Son of God” ’ ” (Matthew 27:42-43).These guys knew how to dish out ridicule. They’d debated Jesus earlier that week and he’d gotten the better of them. Now they threw his own words back at him. When they called him King, they meant he obviously wasn’t one—that the cross made him powerless. When they said he trusted God, they meant he clearly didn’t—look what was happening to him. These guys understood dark humor and sarcasm. They wanted their words to sting.What’s Matthew’s point? Well, God can be witty too. If you look at all those things said to ridicule Jesus, you’ll find they’re actually true. Every one of them. Jesus really is the great King. And the Son of God. And the Savior. He trusted God so fully that he was willing to be crucified to see God’s plan through. And after three days, the temple of his body rose again in victory. God arranged for the essential things we need to know about Jesus to be said at his crucifixion—by those mockers.
What matters Most
Perhaps nothing is more central to the Cross than the words of those religious leaders: “He saved others, but he can’t save himself!” Yes, even that was true. Although Jesus had the power to save himself, he had a singular determination not to. He had to do his Father’s will. He had to sacrifice himself.It’s a stunning move—that the Father’s delight would be to punish his Son for the sin of his people. But Jesus knew his duty and shared his Father’s love. In order to save others, he couldn’t save himself.Now I see why the things those mockers said were important to Matthew. They mattered to him because he understood they were all-important to Jesus. And they mattered to Jesus because I matter to Jesus. He accepted the pain and the death and the curse of God because saving others—saving me—mattered more. More than nails. More than thorns. More than ridicule. More than the terror of death or the wrath of God. More than saving himself.

And the next family will be...

It's been a long and busy week in the Myers family. I've had to do some travelling with work and Chris has been working tons. We are so thankful that we both still have jobs in this economy, not to mention the second most unemployed state in the US right now.

We were recently told that the Lopez family will be the next family to travel to Vietnam to bring home their son. If you don't remember, their son was the very first baby in the home and will be 3 years old in June! SO we are very happy that he will finally be able to come home. Unfortunately the province leaders are requiring a bit more paperwork from this family before they can travel. It is a bit frustrating... so no one is in country right now and apparently this province will only allow one family to travel at a time. They have been keeping the families in the province for a minimum of 10 days before preforming their G&R ceremonies. There doesn't seem to be any rhyme or reason for their madness. The last baby home was the youngest and the next one out is the oldest... Maybe they line them up and play musical chairs... the winner gets to finally go home.

Sorry, I seem a bit sarcastic. But dealing with no system and quite a few people that don't care about your situation or your child's for 3 years now, has finally gotten to me!

On another note. We are SO incredibly thankful for this Easter weekend. We are here, and we live for Him who lived and died for us. This weekend we can celebrate that we won't only have Dillen for our lifetime but for eternity because of what Christ has done for us.

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Completed G&R!

We are excited to announce that another family completed their Giving and Receiving Ceremony! The father traveled alone to bring home their son and stayed in the province for 10 days before the Justice would complete their adoption, however it finally happened!

Unfortunately, the family that traveled didn't take any pictures for us, so I have no pictures to post. Thuoc did take some measurements of our BIG girl while in the province. Supposedly Dillen weights nearly 19lbs and is 29inches long. Sounds like a really long little girl, right?

Hopefully we'll be able to post continued good news very soon. We are expecting to hear that another family can travel very soon.